Transportation

We are hoping you will take advantage of our shuttle service and have the convenience of only parking your car once.

Located directly next door to the reception venue The Wilder Room East End Parking Garage. 475 East Main Street, Rochester, NY 1460. It is our intent that guests park at this garage as our shuttle will be leaving the reception venue to go to the ceremony venue.

The Shuttle first shuttle will arrive at the corner of Swan Street and East Avenue (The Shuttle says "S&S" on the side) and the first trip will be at 3:15pm. Once partially full it will go to St. Josephs park and drop people off. The shuttle will continue making rounds with the last trip to St. Josephs Park departing at 3:40pm.

After the ceremony the shuttle will be available to transport guests back to the cocktail hour at Wilder Room.

Hotel Discount

We have a social room discounted rate at the Courtyard by Marriott. There is also a discount for AAA members. ( Those probably don't stack but you can try! )

Courtyard by Marriott
0.4 miles from the Wilder Room390 East Avenue Rochester,
New York 14607

Other Hotels in the area include:

School 31 Lofts.8 miles from the Wilder Room
The Strathallan Hotel.6 miles from the Wilder Room
The Holiday Inn.6 miles from the Wilder Room
Hyatt Regency Rochester.4 miles from the Wilder Room
*Note: We have not reserved any rooms at these hotels

Food

Plates

We will be serving a plated dinner with a choice of three entrees. Please let us know your choice along with any dietary restrictions in your RSVP.

6oz. Filet Mignon

with Broccoli Rabe, Crispy Fingerling Potatoes, Black Truffle Aioli, Red Wine Sauce

Nine-Gem Korma

Coconut Curry Lentils and Rice, Mixed Vegetables, Crispy Tofu, Beet Chutney,Cilantro

Faroe Island Salmon

with Coriander Creamed SwissChard, Za'atar Potatoes, Cauliflower, Avocado-Sweet Potato Dressing

Dress Code

Formal Garden Party

For a formal garden party dress code, women should opt for elegant and refined attire that complements the outdoor setting. Light, breathable fabrics such as chiffon, cotton, linen, or silk are recommended. Long flowing dresses in subtle summer colors or slightly darker hues, such as slate blue, dusty rose, plum, wisteria, steel blue, navy, burgundy, olive, forest green, or taupe are great options for a more formal event. Alternatively, jumpsuits can provide a stylish alternative to traditional dresses.

For men, a formal garden party dress code calls for a tasteful and sophisticated outfit. This is the perfect time to bring out those lighter colored suits. Classic colors such as charcoal, light gray, navy, cobalt, tan, olive, taupe, tweed, and cream are all excellent choices that complement the season and setting but don’t be afraid to get creative and dip into pastel-colored suits and floral patterned accents. A well-fitted sport coat or sharp blazer paired with tailored trousers such as chinos or dress dress pants can be another appropriate alternative to a suit. Lightweight fabrics like linen, cotton, or a blend allow for comfort and breathability. Footwear choices should include loafers, derby shoes, or Oxford shoes in colors that harmonize with the outfit. Sneakers, flip-flops, or sandals should be avoided as they are too casual for a formal event. It is better to dress slightly more formal than underdressed to show respect for the occasion.

Inspiration Colors

*Note: bridesmaids will be an Azazie desert rose**Note: The floor at the ceremony venue is stone tile, we recommend against stilettos.

Registry

As we start our new life together, we are excited to plan our dream honeymoon. If you would like to be a part of our journey, we have setup a honeymoon fund and are hummbly asking for contributions to help us get there.

Venmo

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